ADHD culture: having friends who are diagnosed, having friends who aren’t diagnosed yet, and the secred third thing: friends who definitely have it but you forgot where they are in the diagnostic process before they come to you like “guys I think I might have it too” and you’re like “wait, you didn’t know you have it?”
A lot of people I connect with are out of country and I always find myself apologizing for being American….
it’s not even cringe; it’s just personal and unpolished and you’ve been taught to flinch away from vulnerability which doesn’t mock itself
tumblr isn’t a social media it’s a farmers market and the people you follow are the vendors and your mutuals are regulars and sometimes a person I buy pumpkins from will start selling realistic models of sailboats and damn i’m not gonna buy any but I will come by and compliment you on your sailboats
Sometimes the bakery stall that’s been selling top tier muffins and bread for years all of a sudden has an entire table dedicated to moss balls wearing little hats. and the correct response to that is “okay! happy for you!”
“You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give it. Real love moves freely in both directions. Don’t waste your time on anything else.”— Cheryl Strayed; Tiny Beautiful Things
it’s never too late to start again. 5pm on a thursday can be your new monday. you don’t have to wait until the new year to better yourself. time is an illusion, don’t forget that. just because you woke up at 1pm, it doesn’t mean you messed your whole day up and that you can’t turn the mood around. it’s never too late to start again!!!!!
